Boxes in different sizes, shapes, and features, in which women try to fit in from the day they were born in Turkey... The only similarity among them is their restrictiveness, molding women’s lives and perceptions. Boxes tell us that you should look perfect, but not too perfect that you wouldn't seduce men, who are not responsible for their actions if you are “asking for it" by showing skin; you shouldn't be skinny, but neither too fat: men would never choose a fat woman as their spouse; you should be powerful, but not too powerful that you would make men feel weak; the guilt is on you if your hijab is not covering every inch of hair because men get seduced as it's their nature. Each corner of our boxes imposes another criterion for women to get to fit in the community.
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