"Structural Problems" by Tuna Gülmez
The greatest challenge the woman of Turkey face is oppression in any way that can be applied through the way of superiority this complex mindset of politicians, men and the rich drown the ecosystem of equality in this society .In this complex structure, the woman are seen as additional support rather than columns that are required hold it all together. The women of Turkey are trying their hardest for safety, shelter, food basically all that are the minimum requirements to survive which are a must.
But building a nest egg isn’t easy, as finding a job that can supply your sustainability to survive -living and surviving aren’t the same- which really creates a lot of problems. Women are told to look after the kids, the elders because they are unemployed, %42 of women are unemployed in Turkey because they get fired off their jobs in the belief of a second income to the family economy, but not every women has to have a relationship, this sexist approach is both mentally and socially narrow-minded thinking that a woman has to have a significant other. All of this and still this is only the ‘bright’ side of the coin. The one that doesn’t have families mourn over the loss of their siblings, mothers, daughters all the deceased that fell victim to a drunk husband that had a bad day, jealous boyfriend that is overreacting or an envious stalker that wanted the best for her. In this country where people ger ridiculed for getting sexually assaulted, dressing the way they want to, all of these people are the ones who had dreams they wanted to fulfill, places they wanted to see, children they wanted to see grow up, people they wanted to fall in love, lovers they wanted with to create memories with but they suffered because of the lack of precaution or punishment for those ones who were meant to be castigated for their actions and thus creating a superiority complex. The laws are entrusted to judge people by their actions but if the lawmakers allow those who raped someone to get no punishment if the rapist marries their victim then this is society is bound to break by rallies to get the democrats off their seats. But that is also not possible since oppressing people is as easy as getting away with sexual assault -being amnestied- and thus beating peacefully protesting people to unrecoverable situations. But violence doesn’t always pose a physical threat, verbal abuse is a difficulty that our woman face “you can’t help it she is a woman”, “what are you going to do with that body of yours” sometimes it even goes so far as to being vulgarly abusive towards one’s gender. But oppression doesn’t only affect women but the men around too since the when people see a sexual offense towards someone it takes courage for one to act up since everyone is thinking someone will help anyways. The families of some aren’t as welcoming as other victims because sometimes the abuse comes from the ones that are close us our family itself and to hide this hideous act the family keeps it a secret and restricts the victim to apply for any hotline for support. The women are so afraid to even report domestic abuse because they want to keep their children safe from the abuser.
All the abuse and oppression against women are because of inequality and weakening the socio-economic status of women. The unprogressive ideology deepens the inequality and dumps all that try to climb out of the pit of misogyny. The ones in charge of defending the people talk ignominiously against the women hostile movements against justice seekers helps those sick minded abusers. The safety that’s not provided to those who are afraid will be the doom of the ones who don’t see a reason to protect. ni